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Goal Setting :: 2018 Personal Goals

I love living in the first week of January!  There is something about everything being new and fresh and exciting about turning a new page.  This week I have been sharing 2018 goals, so thanks for sticking around.  If you have not checked out Power Sheets yet, head on over to the site and see if they might be right for you!  I am loving mine and hope to stick with them throughout the year!

Yesterday I shared my business goals, but today I want to share my five personal goals I will be working on for quarter one of the 2018 year.

  • Connect weekly with extended family.  This can with be by text, phone calls, letters, or personal interaction with them.
  • Get a regular exercise routine down, and include kids in it
  • Create box gardens for my home, plan and build in quarter 1, plant in quarter 2, harvest in quarter 3, evaluate in quarter 4.
  • Continue on with my Bible Reading through Studies (She Reads Truth is my favorite now and I just began a study on hospitality that is rocking my world)
  • Finish completely re-doing Elise’s room (Painting, new furniture for my almost 11 year old by the end of February!)
  • Put together photo books for my family!
  • Date night once a month with Kevin

Again, yikes.  These goals feel so personal it is hard to even write them because I know there are some people reading this that will be affected and will ASK me about these things!  But these are things I have prayed over and felt led to really work on in my personal life!   What will you be making happen in your personal life this year?  I would love to hear more, feel free to leave a comment below or shoot me an e-mail!  I would love to be able to help you stick to your goals!

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    Goal Setting:: 2018 Business Goals

    As you read the above header, you land in one of the two camps::

    “YAY, I LOVE goal setting, when can we get started and can I bring all my colored markers, and stickers, ideas, and planners to the table”

    OR

    “Please come find me when you are finished.”

    I used to run with the latter camp… like up until 2 years ago.  Really, I am serious. I made all kids of excuses (my kids are too young, I am too old, I’ll never accomplish these goals, my numbers will never be where I want them to be so why even try, can I really do what I am hoping to accomplish, is it realistic enough, but my husband is a pastor, I’m too busy, I don’t have enough time, I am always tired, my kids require too much of me, etc., etc. etc.)

    I have always loved checklists, and could get through my day by crossing daily tasks off, but I never really took the time to look at the big picture of my business or even my life.  I was just getting by.

    It is scary for me to even admit this to the internet, but last year was the first year in my business that I put numbers to paper and set real life goals.  To be fair, I was an art major and had no business background in college. I got married right after graduation and we started our family not long after that.  There wasn’t a whole lot of time to take any business classes or goal setting courses, so everything I have learned on the business side of things has been because I walked through them on my own, or learned by failure.

    In January of 2017, I put numbers to paper, set my goals for 2017 and watched as they were accomplished! Then in October I discovered Power Sheets, and my goal setting life has been dramatically changing! (Thank you Lara Casey and the Cultivate Team)

    Now I run with the first camp, one that I never thought I would be in.  I am now a huge believer in setting intentional, life-giving goals because I have seen things happen last year that I want to see happen at an even deeper level this year.  Instead of making the goals an annual thing, I love that my Power Sheets give me the option to reevaluate my goals quarterly to see if they are realistic and form to my life! Already since I have started, I have decided to change what some of them are because I don’t feel right about going in a certain direction!

    So Internet, here are my quarter one business goals for 2018:

    • Create systems for the business from start to finish for both my wedding and portrait clients.
    • Be able outsource all my social media in my busy season and get it to where I want it in the slow season.
    • Create content for the blog and social media for the entire year
    • Put all 2018 numbers to paper and get the calendar set with sessions, weddings, events and mini sessions
    • Change pricing structure and create pricing information to go along with it

    YIKES, it is SO scary to write those mainly because I am not sure I can even accomplish them.  But Internet, please hold me to them, and I would love to know your 2018 goals!  Will you share them with me?  I’d love to help hold you accountable to them!! (And if you are interested, I would HIGHLY recommend the Power Sheets for the year!)

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      Goal Setting:: What happened in 2017?

      Goal Setting.

      It is one of those things that I have grown to love this past year.  I have always been a list maker and a list crosser and really thrive by doing so, but this past year I became more intentional about the goals I set.  Looking back to this post and this post from last January brings me a lot of joy, not because I accomplished all the goals (because actually I only accomplished about half of them!), but because I set them and worked hard at achieving them.  I also realized throughout the year what was important to me and what needed to go to the wayside. Looking back, I was really happy to see the results!  Progress not perfection was my mantra!

      So what worked and what ended up needing to be put aside?? Red:: Accomplished!! Blue:: Nope

      BUSINESS

      • Purchase a new lens (I love my new 35mm!)
      • Create a monthly/ if not bi-monthly newsletter (Keep watching for them in your inbox monthly for 2018!)
      • Blog at least 3-5 times a week with one special focus day (Let’s be honest, In October this went to they wayside because I was SO busy, but progress is better than perfection, right?!!)
      • Connect social media (Facebook, Instagram and Twitter) to those blogs (Hired a VA!!  Thank you Susan!!)
      • Photograph another styled wedding shoot (I did actually did TWO; watch for the publication soon!!!  eeekkk!!)
      • Connect with at least 2-3 other wedding vendors a month ( I really drove this hard until June, and then had to let it go to back burner)
      • Create social media calendar (Again, thank you Susan!)
      • Photograph a wedding in another state or country (besides Wisconsin!)
      • Submit weddings and sessions at the end of each month
      • Learn more about my camera and attend at least two educational seminars in the world of photography this year
      • Create some kind of mentor session- (not sure the details of this, and still working through how this would look, or if it even something I want to do)
      • Shoot x amount of weddings, newborns, and family sessions and make x amount per year. (I have this number written down, but feel comfortable not sharing on the Internet for personal reasons! (Super excited to watch these numbers.  Honestly when you write things down, it IS amazing what happens!!)

       

      PERSONAL

      • Taking our kids out one-on-one weekly (I didn’t do this, but Kevin was awesome at it, and by him doing so, I got to spend time with my other 2, which changed the dynamics of our home tremendously!)
      • Reading one book per month (While I finished 2 actual real live books you can hold in your hand, I finished 17 Audible books with my kids this year!  I seriously call that a win, and am now addicted to Audible!)
      • Taking a day off , like really off. (Nope, just did not happen, but we are working on this one as the slow season sets in!)
      • Connecting with family and friends, either by going out, or through texting/ e-mailing/ phone calls throughout the week ( I worked hard at this one in the off season and connected with my Grandma on a bi-weekly basis which has been incredible for our relationship, and have connected with friends at various times and gone on some wonderful girls weekends!!)
      • Running another 1/2 marathon ( No half marathon for me, but I did run a 10K in August and did not train for it at all! My good friend pushed me the entire way, and I was super happy with my time and the fact I can still run 6 miles without training… maybe its those 9 hour wedding days that help..!!)
      • Doing a Bible Study/ quarter with other women (Again, progress not perfection on this one!  First quarter I was able to be in a Bible study with some dear women, then invested into our small group on Sunday evenings!)
      • Investing into self-care (Honestly, I don’t think I did well in this area.  I worked hard to get out walking every day in the beginning of the year, but once summer came and my kids were home and business was back in full swing, my schedule was wonky and I just went to the wayside.  Working on this again for the 2018 year!)
      • Date night with Kevin once every other week (Although we did date, it was not weekly.  I think this was an unrealistic expectation and am putting it monthly for the 2018 year!)
      • Create and print photo books of my family for the year ( Working on this too, I hate that I am a photographer and have NO books to show my kids.  It is going on the goals list for 2018!)
      • Work on a personal photo project for myself (If I can’t do self care how do I have time for this?  Again, unrealistic expectation and maybe for the future!!)

      I’m SO, SO glad I set these up, and they are SO helpful as I look into the New Year on where to go with my goals!

      For 2018, I have decided to go even deeper with my goal setting and in November purchased Power Sheets from Cultivate What Matters. I have heard all about these sheets in the entrepreneurial world that I run around in, but never really took the time to invest in them and use them. The rest of this week I will be sharing my goals for the 2018 year!!

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        Rest… Finally.

        So this post is really personal.  So if you are interested in pretty photos, keep a scrolling away and I hope you will find what you are looking for and of course I would love to connect, but this is a post that I am keepin’ it real and laying out this crazy, real, tiring life of an entrepreneur which is not always as glamorous as it seems.

        You’d think after years of doing this, it the ride would get smoother and easier as they years go by. .. but one never knows what life will throw at them and how things will relatively change from one year to the next.  We have had it all.  New bab(ies), a house fire, new job, starting a church, all happen within the same time my busy season hits.  Smack dab in the middle of it!

        This year, I feel exhausted.  I talked with a good friend and was just about was in tears over the way I have been treating my family, the way I get snippy with friends, and how I am just overall exhausted and how I think I might really, this year for sure, put in my resume and join the corporate world. She gently and kindly reminded me that I say that every year, and another year comes and there I am with my goals list for the next year and ready to put myself out there in the entrapernaurel life again.

        After 80+ sessions and 3 weddings, all in the last 4 weeks, you might be going out of your mind too.  Let’s not talk about how my house looks and how I’ve neglected working out and living off coffee… No let’s not even go there.

        But as my kind, and loving husband always so graciously reminds me (as he cleans up dinner one more time, yes, he IS a great catch) it’s just a season.  And seasons never last.  They are there for a brief time and then we get the rest our bodies so desperately need and we start with new growth for the next year. Winter has a way of slowing me down. I stinkin’ can not wait for this long week of rest and growth as I enter a season of SLOW!!

        What about you?  Are you needing that rest too?  Rest not only in your body, but in your soul too? Can I be praying for you?  Send me a message and let me know.  I am so happy to do that for you!

         

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        • Oh Karen, your not alone in this journey of being an entrepreneur, GF!
          All the late nights, crying babies, social media frenzy, with a family to take care of; I can’t believe that I accomplished as much as I did this year!
          I do believe God puts us in a place we are meant to be:) hugs, enjoy your week of rest!

        Our Christmas Traditions

        It is that time of the year again.  My family LOVES the Christmas season and we try so hard to pack everything into these 24 days before Christmas!  Sometimes it makes me go crazy, but I know my kids look forward to it every year because there is so much time spent together as a family.  The longer I have had kids and the older they get, the more I come to realize that traditions as expected and loved not only by my kids, but also by me!  So here are some of the traditions we do each year.  I would love to hear yours as we continue to add and change as the kids grow!!

        1. Gingerbread houses
        2. Advent Calendars
        3. Making Sugar Cookies with Christmas cut outs
        4. Cookie Exchange
        5. Getting our Christmas tree, either from a farm or a local lot and decorating it the weekend after Thanksgiving
        6. Going to the Kids Christmas concerts
        7. Live Nativity (we didn’t make it to this one this year, but we do love it!)
        8. Christmas at Northwestern with college friends
        9. Canadian Christmas Train (we missed this one too 🙁 )
        10. Elf on the Shelf (Eskimo and Snowball are always getting into trouble!)
        11. Christmas Eve Service with candle lighting
        12. Rearranging the entire house to set up Christmas decorations
        13. Looking at Christmas lights in our PJ’s and drinking hot chocolate
        14. Dinner at a family friend’s home and White Elephant gift Exchange
        15. Celebrating the Winter Solstice by making snowflakes for our windows.
        16. St. Nick Day celebrated with oranges and candies
        17. Buying gifts for family members
        18. Getting cards ready to mail
        19. Operation Christmas Child
        20. Tree lighting in the park (we missed this one too this year!)
        21. Christmas Program at Church and with Grandma and Grandpa
        22. Giving neighbors baked cookies
        23. Celebrating Christmas and gift exchange with my college girlfriends
        24. Watching all the Christmas movies we can (our favorites: Elf, White Christmas, Muppets Christmas, Charlie Brown Christmas, Rudolph, Frosty, and the Nativity)
        25. Of course; the kids having a sleepover in one room and then opening presents at the crack of dawn in jambes while munching on cinnamon rolls, fruit, coffee and OJ!

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