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Reflections:: Back to school

So here it is.  The month we as mommas wait for, the month of September that we send our kids back to school. The first week there are new schedules, new routines, backpacks, and clothes. There is a joy and a gift in starting over in these new routines, but there is also a sadness in that summer is over and routines, are just that… routines.

There is a beauty in starting school.  I do actually like that we bring routine back to our schedules, and that there is a newness about the season that is changing. I love that my kids get to be with friends again and all the great activities that they are involved in start up again.  There is also the joy that the are being challenged mentally again and thinking through how to organize their day.

But there is the hardship and sadness that is felt in this second week of school. We have already felt it in the getting to bed earlier and waking up earlier.  In getting homework done and making sure lunches are made before bounding out the door to the fall activities.  There is the stopping in the middle of the day for me to pick up kids from school and momentum being lost.  There is the fact that we aren’t seeing each other as much and being tired and all the emotions that come along with that.  There is also that thought that winter is closer than these warm days of summer, and if I’m really being honest, I am not excited for that at all!

So in as much as I love the start and routine of school, there are a few things that I don’t love about it.  What about you?  In this second week of school and new routines, how are you feeling about it?  In love, or not so much, or just mixed emotions like me??

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    Reflections:: Parenting

    I was listening to a podcast this week about raising teenagers. The host mentioned that she remembered feeling physically exhausted she was when her kiddos were little, but now as teens, feeling mentally exhausted with all the things that she has to think about. Questions ranging from Are they making the right friends, to are they BEING a good friend, to have I prepared them well for xyz. Having a 13 year old, I am just beginning to feel this way, and quite frankly there are days I would rather go back to the physically exhausted days! Any other momma feeling me, or am I just plain crazy?

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      Reflections:: Friday Nights

      Before we had kids, Friday nights were so much fun. We would grab dinner somewhere in the City, walk around or just shoot the breeze. That was totally gone when our kids were little and we struggled to find a babysitter or the energy to even go out! But now we are slowly able to get back into enjoying Friday nights as our kids become teenagers. Sometimes we all head out to eat, or Kevin and I get a date night while our oldest baby-sits! It is crazy to think we have to this stage of life, but let me tell you, it is pretty great! Happy Friday night to you in whatever you are doing!

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        Grace upon grace… even today

        This week.  This day.

        It is one of transition and crazy for me. We have one more month of summer vacation, activities are in full swing, kids are fighting, I have sessions to edit and calendars to manage. Let me be honest with you… I am just plain tired.

        I am behind in my editing, my house is needing a good clean and my poor husband is getting the leftovers of me. But friends let me tell you, if there is one thing that I am learning in this season of life, it is giving grace to myself, my calendar, and my kids. I don’t always have to have the picked up house, activities will slip through the cracks and I may not make the deadlines I create for my work life. But I am getting things done, loving on my kids, determined to enjoy each day to the fullest utilize the rest of summer WELL, even if it does last until 1 am!!

        So how are you doing today? Are you giving yourself grace?

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          Reflections:: Vacation

          This year I simply Can NOT wait for our family vacation.  Not that we are doing anything out of the ordinary, but it is a concentrated time that we are all needing together.  After 11 weddings and lots of family sessions on the calendar, I specifically did not take weddings or family sessions over 2 weekends this summer so I could regroup and get mentally ready for quarter 3 (my craziest quarter for the year!).  I can not wait to sleep in, not have anything on the calendar except laying by a pool, drifting down waterslides, being with good friends and family, and eating amazing food.  Hope you have a vacation planned soon to be able to do the same.  They are so worth it! Agreed?!!

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